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November 21, 2009

BENEVOLENT OUTCOMES BLOG 2

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IN THIS BLOG:

  • BALKY LOCK MBO
  • BANK PROBLEM
  • LOST EARRING MBO
  • BENEVOLENT OUTCOME FOR TIPS
  • HOT TUB BENEVOLENT OUTCOMES
  • VAN BENEVOLENT OUTCOME
  • THE GENTLE WAY BOOK II

Welcome to the second edition of my blog about requesting Benevolent Outcomes in your life.  This is a simple, yet powerful spiritual tool I discovered around 14 years ago that I use every day in my personal and business life running an international film and TV distribution company.

You can read two sample chapters of my first book THE GENTLE WAY: A Self-Help Guide For Those Who Believe In Angels by going to my website www.TheGentleWayBook.com.  You can also read articles I’ve written for regional, national and international magazines.  I’m a monthly columnist for The Sedona Journal of Emergence! (www.sedonajo.com).

I always suggest starting out with requests for the mundane things in your life such as saying, “I request a Most Benevolent Outcome for a parking space in front of ______________, thank you!” In my belief system, I believe it’s my Guardian Angel Handling these requests, but you can believe you’re being assisted by whatever higher power you believe in—that’s OK!  Just know, IT WORKS! Now for some neat Benevolent Outcome (MBO) stories.

BALKY LOCK MBO

Rick writes: “The lock to the laundry room door in our apartment complex has been balky lately. It seems like I spend 5 minutes trying to get the key to unlock it. I’ve used MBOs for it, and they’ve worked. The other day, I asked for one almost an hour before I went down there. To my surprise, the door was wide open with a couple of people already doing laundry, and I guess previous MBOs must have gone beyond my key working, as the landlord finally fixed the lock! It’s now in perfect working order.”

It’s those little mundane MBO’s that make life easier!

BANK PROBLEM

Laura writes:  “ I was overdrawn at the bank $130!, plus a $27 charge & $35 bank charge from the man that said the money was no good. O’ boy did I pray. I returned the used product but the man wanted me to pay his $35 bank charge. Well, I have 0000 money & the money from the product $125 was not returned yet.  I owe my bank $130, plus the $27 fee.  What MBO should I say ???  I have not slept the past few nights trying to word this correctly. Thank you Tom.”

Folks, this is not rocket science.  Requesting Benevolent Outcomes is the simplest way you can communicate with that loving soul we call Guardian Angels.  You don’t need me to create each one especially for you—in fact knowing your situation you’ll probably request a better MBO.

As I wrote Laura, you don’t have to have absolutely perfect wording.  Your GA knows what you mean.  Just say, “I request a Most Benevolent Outcome for my problem with my bank and may the results be even better than I can hope for or expect, thank you!”

You can also request a MBO for being led to enough money to pay all your expenses.

LOST EARRING MBO

Daphnee writes:  “I am now in New York and reading your book bit by bit as I am spending time with my family.  I wanted only to let you know a funny and short thing that happened to me.

“After I started reading your book, one night I had a dream, I cannot remember the dream but I do remember one thing while dreaming I was requesting an MBO for something.  I was amazed that while dreaming I was still able to request one. I cannot explain it and I was wondering if you ever heard of such a situation.

“Another little story. My 4 year old was given some expensive earrings by my sister and her godmother. This morning she lost the back of the earring which is very tiny. I requested an MBO to find it and I had not even start look, the Angel directed me straight to the place where it had fallen and nobody was laughing at me anymore as I said 3 times my thank you.

“I am now going to request an MBO to request more MBOs every day.”

That was a nice MBO find!  And yes I have dreamed of requesting MBO’s, and I think that you were being reminded in the dream to do that also–perhaps in connection with finding the earring.

Don’t forget, you can go to my website and click on SIGNS. There you will find a sign that says REQUEST BENEVOLENT OUTCOMES TODAY! You can print out one or several and paste them up around your house to remind you until it becomes an absolute habit.

BENEVOLENT OUTCOME FOR TIPS

This was a message from Heather: “Hey Tom. Just to let you know about my most benevolent weekend–I’m a server at IHOP; well Sunday was looking pretty slow and I asked for a most benevolent tip day–well by the time I finished with my shift, I made $130.00– just what I needed (asked for). Gotta love it. I sure do. Thanks for telling us about the word Benevolent!”

I suggested to Heather and to anyone involved in serving the public that you can say each time before you begin work, “I request a Most Benevolent Outcome for tips today and may it be even better than I hope for or expect, thank you!” I wrote a whole article titled HAVE MORE SUCCESS AND LESS STESS IN RETAIL, which you can read on the website at www.TheGentleWayBook.com under Articles and News. It has a lot more suggestions for anyone working in a retail store, as a commissioned salesperson, etc.

HOT TUB BENEVOLENT OUTCOMES

I knew that heading would get your attention.

From Lynn in Oregon: “I learned about you and Most Benevolent Outcomes from the Sedona Journal of Emergence over a year ago. I bought your book and also sent it to several friends. I have had so many wonderful MBO’s happen, sometimes I am just in awe… I always say please and thank you… One of my favorites is hot tub nights. Our tub is out on our deck, and living on the northern coast, there are a lot of rainy nights. My husband and I go out to the tub just about every Friday-Sunday night. We spend about 30 minutes. Now the chances of it raining, you can imagine, are big. We had to give it up quite a few times the first winters we lived here… Then I started using MBO’s. I ask for the sky to be dry above our Hot Tub between such and such time… I give it an hour…. I would say that we have a lot less rainy nights then we did the first couple of winters we lived here and I did not ask for MBO’s. I say it was almost 50/50 in the winter here…. Now 95% of the time it is either clear, or just a bit misty… May be cloudy and cold, but we don’t care about that! Thank you!!!

“And I use it just about daily! Lot of little things… I find it seems to work best for the small things to just make life simpler and more pleasant! And I so often find, when it doesn’t work, it turns out there is a good reason! Something even better happens. Thank you for your wonderful book! And sharing!”

If you read my book, then you’ll remember the chapter about the KRYON ALASKAN CRUISE where the whole group of us asked for clear days for our shore excursions and each day was clear. It was great!

VAN BENEVOLENT OUTCOME

Sue wrote to me on Facebook: Hi Tom, have a great MBO story for you today! I work at a large university and participate in their van pool program to help our environment and save a lot of money on gas and wear and tear on my own vehicle. In this program you cannot get a van pool vehicle until you have 5 additional people who work full time committed to riding with you on a daily basis. I left my other van pool in January as their working start/stop times really didn’t jibe with mine, meaning that I had to stay an extra 30 minutes each day to catch a ride home with them.

“So I decided to try and start up my own van pool with me being the primary driver and getting 5 others who live near me and have my work hours. I immediately started out by saying an MBO for having people who will be good matches for me and my alternate driver’s personalities, so that we would be able to have a good group riding together for the 2 hrs of commuting every workday. It took me a long time (7 months) to get all of my people but I finally after much frustration on my part wondering why it was taking so long got my last person and applied for the van.

”This organization requires that every newly forming van pool attends a formation meeting with the universities alternative transportation coordinator and the representative for the van pool company. During this meeting I was told that we would not get the customary brand new van but would instead get the only van available and it was a used van. I was a bit disappointed but having said MBOs all along this journey of getting my van pool group started figured that there was a reason for all of these hurdles. I was assured that the used van was safe and trustworthy and because I trusted in them (and my MBOs) I said that is fine I will take whatever you give me!

“This meeting was 2 weeks ago and last Thursday the company representative emailed me and asked if I would be available to meet her and get my van on Monday the 31st (yesterday). Of course I said yes and double checked the day and time with her and made arrangements for it yesterday. Well, we showed up for the meeting (which meant we had to take time off work and have my co-worker drive us across town several miles) and were told that she had made a mistake and told me the wrong day and that the delivery was to be today the 1st. I was very disappointed and yes a bit upset but tried my best to be polite and positive to the coordinator while wondering why this happened and what is going on?? Of course I quickly remembered that I had said MBOs for everything I could think of surrounding this whole event and thought that there was a reason or two for the misunderstanding.

“So now here’s today, the real van delivery day!! We once again show up at our meeting time wondering what our “used van” will be like. The company rep shows up and takes us outside and says “I felt so horrible about the mix-up yesterday that I decided to give you a brand new van and not the older one!” Wow!! Talk about a fantastic MBO!!!

Thanks Tom for your wonderful work and your efforts to get the word out on MBOs! Many Blessings to you Tom and your family!”

THE GENTLE WAY II BOOK

For those of you starting to buy Christmas presents, don’t forget that THE GENTLE WAY II is available for pre-order now and should be ready for delivery SOON!  It goes on the presses next week.  My publisher told me it will be around 300 pages—twice as many as the first book, but the preorder price is only $2.00 more–$16.95.  It could go higher, so put your order in TODAY by calling 800-450-0985 to order.  And the first book is a GREAT gift too, and it’s available from my publisher, or on Amazon.com.  What a great present for you, your friends and family!

If you’re on Facebook, add me as a friend too!  And let your friends know about this blog.

Have a Most Benevolent Week everyone!

Tom

Tom T. Moore

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November 17, 2009

BENEVOLENT OUTCOMES BLOG – #1

IN THIS BLOG:
· INTRODUCTION TO MBO’S
· TORNADO MBO
· BOSTON MBO
· TURKEY BENEOVLENT OUTCOME
· DRIVING, COMPRESSION OF TIME MBO’S
· NEW KITTY MBO
· EAST TEXAS MBO
· IF YOU STOP REQUESTING
· MBO WHEN IT DOESN’T LOOK LIKE IT

This Blog is for people just discovering the simple, yet powerful spiritual tool of requesting Benevolent Outcomes in their lives. You’ll find that requesting Most Benevolent Outcomes (MBO’s) will lower your stress and fear levels, and give you a more successful and calm life. It does not mean that you will not have challenges in your life—they’ll just be easier to work through.

Please go to my website www.TheGentleWayBook.com , where you can read two sample chapters of the book to get your started. I also have articles there you can read that I’ve written for various regional, national, and international magazines to give you even more suggestions.

TORNADO MBO

Heather writes: “Dear Tom, I just had to write and let you know just one story that happened to me and there have been many since I originally found your website. We just moved 2 weeks ago to a wonderful house in the country. That was part of 1 MBO. But the one I wish to tell you about is the one that saved my family. We had just been here 3 or 4 days when a huge thunderstorm kicked up.

“Now I love a good storm but this one got nuts fast. And all of the sudden I realized we had a tornado heading straight for us. I could hear it coming and see the way the wind was blowing the debris. I shouted for my children so we could run down the basement and as we running towards it I mentally requested a MBO for the storm to not cause damage or injury, and just like that it slowed right down and it died to a more gentle rain.

“To say I was completely in awe would be an understatement. And I know this saved my family and the house we just moved into. I say a huge Thank you everyday for finding your site. And I cannot tell you how many times I have made a MBO and it has worked. So again, Thank you!!”

I do recommend that you say your MBO request out loud. In this case I’m sure there was such emotion and danger involved that there was an exception made.

BOSTON MBO

Patrice writes: “I would like to tell you about a neat story that happened to me as a beginner using MBO’s. I was taking my son to the Special Olympics, which is a big event in Boston. We were nervous about parking because the event was huge and parking is few and far between at these events, especially in Boston. So you can imagine how handy MBO’s can be around here.

“We entered the parking lot and there was not a parking space to be found. So… I immediately requested a MBO for a parking spot to open. In the back of my mind I thought this probably won’t work but I’ll try anyhow. My husband looked at me like okey what are you doing ….then within seconds someone backed out and in we went to the space.

“My husband was so surprised. He turned to me and with a smile remarked “Nice job!” I was so, so delighted and stunned. Now this was quite a feat considering there were no parking spaces at all in this crowded lot in downtown Boston. It was quite remarkable.”

TURKEY BENEVOLENT OUTCOME

Diana writes: “I had another amazing experience with MBOs this summer holiday. “We went to Turkey, and I requested an MBO for the city where my in-laws lived, to be cooler and life more bearable at that time. In the city it was raining (a little) and so turned cooler than normally at that time. It never rained there in the summer. Even my mother-in-law was surprised at the weather. I had a huge smile, and of course thanks for my GA.

“Another thing was: my husband was requested to urgently meet a former business partner to “finish an accounting matter”. In the past they always hinted that we owed them money (we did not); they pushed us out after it become successful. Anyway, we thought they will again ask for that money. I requested a MBO for the meeting. The morning of the meeting, the guy forgot about it. But later in the day they had a meeting. My husband told me: the former partner handed him 2,000 usd in cash as a settlement of accounting. My jaw dropped. I like to think that my MBO was helping that.

“Recently 2 nights ago, I requested a MBO for help in organizing our office space as I have had some quarrels with my husband about that. I had almost instant insight about the situation. And my husband agreed that the idea was good on how to re-organize space.”

DRIVING, COMPRESSION OF TIME MBO’S

Darlene in Texas writes: “I always say an “MBO for Divine protection, keen awareness and defensive drivers all around me and a safe, uneventful trip to work” each morning before I back out of my driveway.

“If I’m running late I always “request an MBO for a compression of time to arrive and be able to punch the time clock at the precise time I am supposed to clock-in”. It has worked for me each and every time I have requested it. Sometimes, in my mind, I just know I’m going to be late but I never voice it. My GA’s always get me there.

“Last week I went to see my parents, 6 hours away. As I was returning home I went through a small town and in my haste to get back home, was pulled over for speeding (48 in a 35 mph zone). I only received a warning. Thank you for enlightening me on MBO’s. I use them ALL THE TIME!!!”

NEW KITTY MBO

Gail writes: “My story is about a benevolent outcome I asked for when looking for a new kitty to add to my household. I requested just the right kitty for our family, and that when introduced to my old, huge cat and our dog, that there be none of the hissing and even fighting that usually happens at first. I still marvel at how complete and wonderful the outcome was.

“We found the most loving, sweet kitty (one year old) who is a complete joy for us. The extent of her gentleness and congeniality is unusual for a cat. And, from the first moment she met our cat and dog, she got along splendidly with them. Anyone who has introduced a cat into a household with another cat knows what a miracle this is.

“The Gentle Way helps us in our every day lives, reduces our anxiety, and is a good tool for turning our life challenges, big and small, over to a Higher Power.”

EAST TEXAS MBO

Kathy writes: “I have a MBO experience to share. A couple of months ago, I moved back to my small hometown in East Texas from the Dallas area. It has been a challenge to “slow down,” as the way it is in small towns, everyone moves at a leisurely pace.

“One morning on my way to do errands, I was stopped by a train. A lllooonnnggg train. I immediately recognized that this was a message from the Universe to slow down. I turned off my car ignition and while waiting, I recalled childhood memories of waiting for this train, which was quite relaxing, or so I thought. At the first sign of the last car
in the train, I started my ignition and zoomed across the tracks while the red lights at the railroad stop were still flashing.

“As I crossed the tracks, I saw a police car waiting on the opposite side, and remembered that I’m to wait for the flashing lights to cease before crossing. The policeman immediately turned on his lights, did a u-turn and I pulled over. When the officer approached my car, I had registration and insurance papers in hand and immediately apologized stating that I was wrong and didn’t wait for the lights to go off. I also added that it had been decades that I had to wait for a train.

“As he went to his car to run a check on me, I began thinking that I did not have the money to pay for a ticket and said the following MBO, “I request a MBO in this situation that I receive a warning ticket or may it be an outcome better than I could ever expect or imagine. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

” The officer came to the car and said, “I’m going to give you a warning; however, I don’t have my warning book with me. This ticket would cost you $300 or more. You need to learn to slow down and take it easy. Okay?” “Yes Officer, I will.” And then I said to my GA, whose name is Lillian, “Thank you Lillian!” ”

IF YOU STOP REQUESTING

Lynn writes from Oregon: “I so enjoy your newsletters and reading about the MBO’s. Just wanted to let you know that MBOs fill my life now…even without asking. Yesterday my friend Diane and I drove to Portland, and hour trip over the coast range. I always ask for safe expedient smooth journey when I do this. She says that she forgets, but feels like they happen anyway. And as we talked, I realized I feel the same way… Now that I got my angels in action, I think they are just there. I will still ask, but not worry as much if I forget? Just wondering if you think this happens, we are putting our angels into action?”

My Guardian Angel Theo has told me that even as long as I have been requesting Most Benevolent Outcomes (MBO’s–around 14 years now), if I were to stop requesting MBO’s tomorrow it wouldn’t be too long that I would be just like everyone else reacting to events and not being protected and guided.

Remember, one of the major benefits of requesting MBO’s is it keeps you on your soul contract or life path that YOU LAID OUT prior to your birth for the purpose of gaining the most knowledge and having the most experiences which this life can provide you.

MBO WHEN IT DOESN’T LOOK LIKE IT

Annette writes: “I had a very stressful time when we were beginning work on writing our RFP (Request for Proposal) for our Federal contract. I left my second job to be available to work on this and honestly, after sitting in a few meetings, did not want to be involved (my gut told me we would lose a portion of our contract) but….this was part of my job.

“My friends and family had been telling me that I needed a break after working 2 jobs for 3 years, dealing with my Dad’s passing and my Mom 800 miles away and the contract issues at work was just too stressful. My GA kept telling me that I needed to get some rest and several times I would say to my GA – “I can’t take a break right now, I’ll take one
when all this is over”.

“On December 24th at 7:45am – I fell and broke my ankle outside of a shopping center while getting that last minute Christmas gift on my way to the office. I looked like something from a cartoon; I slipped on ice and one leg went one way and one went the other – I landed on my more than ample backside, slid down the ice and since I was wearing boots with excellent tread, when my foot hit the pavement my right leg twisted up behind me and TADA – a nice spiral fracture, dislocated foot/ankle and a few other interesting, but minor injuries.

“The first person to see me was an off duty paramedic who came running to me followed by an on duty police officer. In the ER we had to use my new flannel PJ’s I had picked up for myself as an impulse buy (they were only $5.00!) after they cut my jeans away and as I lay in the ER for 10 hours I heard my GA say “You needed to take a break”. They reset the ankle, but I would need surgery on the leg and would have to wait a week to let all the swelling go down.

“I had a great pity party Christmas morning as I was in some pain (my husband – such an Angel) and a week later, had surgery. I was 8 weeks out of the office and 12 weeks in a wheelchair. While out of the office the person that one of the managers wanted to write the RFP got to write it. I worked some from home with our Budget Officer and learned
two very important things:

“1) Be careful what you ask for….like not wanting to work on the RFP
2) Listen to your GA when they looking out for your health – they have
your best interest at heart
3) My GA has a sense of humor
4) My GA took care of me completely; off-duty paramedic, police
officer, the flannel PJ’s. My GA had everything ready.
5) Sometimes what seems at first to be a negative thing turns out to be
a positive thing.

“I learned several “lessons”, some serious and some humorous – all of which made a big impact on my and facilitated some changes that have been positive.

“So slow down and “smell the roses” everyone!”

And with that I’ll wish you a Most Benevolent Week everyone!

Tom

Tom T. Moore

www.TheGentleWayBook.com

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