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March 13, 2010

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Welcome everyone to this edition of the Benevolent Outcomes Blog, and a special welcome to all those who signed up last week.  If you like these blogs, let your friends know about them.  The blogs are for people who are just being introduced to this simple spiritual “tool” that anyone can use everyday the rest of your life to connect you with what I believe is your Guardian Angel; but you can believe whatever you wish.  Just know that this WORKS!

For those of you new to this blog, MBO’s is an abbreviation for Most Benevolent Outcomes.  If you’ve never tried this before, I recommend starting with those “mundane” small requests such as a parking spot in front of busy restaurant or a seat on a train or subway—things that will make life a little easier.

Just yesterday my wife could not find a package she thought she and my son had picked up at our postal service.  They looked everywhere and I joined in.  After five minutes of searching I said, “I request a Most Benevolent Outcome for finding this package, thank you!” Then I RELEASED IT—I didn’t continue to worry.  She requested a MBO too.  Later, my son went to the postal center to pick up the mail and there was the package.

Requesting MBO’s reduces the stress in your life. Give it a try and you’ll see.  Visit my website where you can read a couple of sample chapters of my first book to get you started.   Below are some emails I’ve received from people requesting MBO’s in their lives.


Kelly writes:  “I want to share another benevolent outcome incident with you.  The other day, my son came home from school with his retainer broken.  He somehow broke a small wire spring off of it.  Upon looking at it, it seemed as though it would have to be replaced altogether; but I wasn’t about to give up hope.  I scheduled an orthodontic appointment for him and while we were en route, I requested aloud a MBO for the appointment to result in no costs to us–so that there would be no charge for whatever had to be done for my son’s retainer situation.

“Sure enough, the orthodontist stated that at first he was a bit worried due to the nature of the break in the appliance, but he somehow managed to bend the remaining spring just so that it would meet my son’s needs perfectly. And….he told me to be sure to tell the receptionist that this visit was to be of NO charge to us.  Apparently retainer repairs can incur additional costs, generally.  This was all new to us and we are so grateful for this outcome!”


Lynn in Oregon writes:  “Hi Tom.   Happy times for sure.  And here is one to share. Crafts Fair MBO….  My husband and I went to our small crafts fair at the county fair grounds… You are talking about 1/13th the size of those big city ones!  But still fun.  Lots of local crafts…  We have gone every year since we have moved here, in 2004…  Coming from a big city in CO we were a bit disappointed..  As we have been with lots of things since moving here… But now we have learned to appreciate the smallness and get over missing the other stuff.

”Anyway, we were at the fair, and there is this one section that you can buy raffle tickets for that each vender has donated a prize.   We bought 4 tickets, 2 each.  My husband took his two and looked over things with a quick pass.. He said he didn’t see anything he wanted, so he gave me the tickets.  I was not real excited about much either, but the proceeds went to a good enough cause–maintaining our humble fairgrounds.   This was the 4th year and we had never won anything.  But this year I just wanted to win…and found 4 things that I would not mind winning and put a ticket in each one.  Before I did however, I asked for a MBO that I would win one of the things, and was not picky…just wanted to win!

“That night I got a phone call, and I am sure you know what I am about to say… We won the cutest little locally made birdhouse!  My husband makes birdhouses, so he can use this one for a pattern, and then we will put it out with our others..  We live on the Oregon Coast and get a huge amount of birds….  So was good choice to win!  Thank you very much.”


Thelma writes:  “Greetings, I must tell you that I am so grateful that I was introduced to your book. I have not veered from using the MBO daily. I must share this great experience with you and the team.

”I was requested to do some routine medical tests and to be candid that even though I know I needed to do them. I was still nervous. Well I did do them, with the request of the MBO and most of them came back good with exception of a small cyst in the kidney, which is not a threat. Well I had to do a mammogram which I had not done since 1999 – shame on me, but I was not ready for any disturbing news. The report came back reporting calcifications in both breasts. This I had known before and that had me concerned. The lab then requested my return as they did not have any record of my last visit in 1999. My daughter, who is a very meticulous Doctor, was able to produce the written report of 1999 and demanded that they find the Xray films. At this time I am now due to do a more in depth mammogram for comparison. This had me more shaken although I had my daughter’s full support.

”I must however joyfully report that I repeated my MBO’s for them to find their records and not find any change in 9 years, while on my way to repeat the mammogram yesterday. I got to the lab, with the staff fully alerted by my daughter. I dressed down ready to go, when a technician came out and apologized for my having to return and told me to dress and go as they had found the films and the Doctors had gone over it and there was no change since 1999.

”I will be forever grateful to you for sharing the MBO’s.”


Bernadette writes:  “Tom I am enjoying all the newsletters. Can you give me an affirmation that I can write on my bills when they arrive?  Much appreciated.”

Well Bernadette and everyone, one thing I do each month is to request a Most Benevolent Outcome for being able to pay all our bills for that month.  As an example, you could say, “I request a Most Benevolent Outcome for paying all the bills that will come due in the month of March, thank you!” For some specific bills such as electricity, you could say, “I request a Most Benevolent Outcome to find ways to reduce my monthly electric bill, thank you!” You could request the same MBO for gas, water, and heating oil depending upon what part of the country you’re in.


Marcy writes:  “I noticed someone wrote asking what to say for an MBO for cancer.  I have a 28 yr old son who has seizures.  Would You please give me and him the words to say for an MBO for seizures?”

For him, “I request a Most Benevolent Outcome that my seizures be mild and that over time they will occur less and less, thank you!”

Naturally he could change that up to fit his circumstances more accurately.

For you a Benevolent Prayer, “I ask that any and all beings assist my son in reducing the severity of his seizures, thank you!”  That’s how you request MBO’s for other people, as a whole different set of “whole souls,” which we call angels, responds to.

And a MBO–“I request a Most Benevolent Outcome for being led to treatments for my son that will be the most benevolent for him, and may they be even better than I can hope for or expect, thank you!”


One of my readers (I won’t use his name) emailed about asking what MBO’s to request for a wrongful termination lawsuit he was forced to bring against his company.  He described his boss as a real jerk who even sexually abused a female employee.  He was concerned that his boss might be fired.  I told him this might very well be a soul contract lesson his boss may need to learn in this life, so he should only be concerned with his own actions, as this is probably a soul contract lesson for him too.

I cover this in my book, for those of you who haven’t read it.  When you have problems at work you first request a Benevolent Outcome for the problem you’re having. You can also request MBO’s each time you meet with a supervisor, management of the company, union officials, an attorney, or even some government agency if what they are doing is against the law.  Then anything that happens will be the best for you in the long run.

This person recently emailed to tell me that he won a settlement in mediation, even acting as his own attorney.

In the book I related how I was sued for one million dollars one time and the final result was that I paid nothing—except for the attorney.  Have faith in requesting Benevolent Outcomes for the small all the way up to the major events in your life!


Don’t forget that THE GENTLE WAY II is NOW AVAILABLE for delivery on!  Here is the link: .  You can also order it by phone at my publisher Monday to Friday.  Call toll free 800-450-0985. It has twice as many pages as the first book. The books are great for presents for family and friends for birthdays and other special occasions!  The first book is also available on  Either or both books can change lives!

For many more suggestions on requesting MBO’s, please go to my website   You can also sign up to receive this weekly F.R.E.E. blog at  And I also have a weekly newsletter on more advance topics.  All the newsletters are archived under Articles and News on the website, plus I do a Podcast of the newsletters for those too busy to read.

Email me your own MBO stories, as they inspire others to live THE GENTLE WAY!

Have a Most Benevolent Week!

Tom T. Moore

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November 21, 2009


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Welcome to the second edition of my blog about requesting Benevolent Outcomes in your life.  This is a simple, yet powerful spiritual tool I discovered around 14 years ago that I use every day in my personal and business life running an international film and TV distribution company.

You can read two sample chapters of my first book THE GENTLE WAY: A Self-Help Guide For Those Who Believe In Angels by going to my website  You can also read articles I’ve written for regional, national and international magazines.  I’m a monthly columnist for The Sedona Journal of Emergence! (

I always suggest starting out with requests for the mundane things in your life such as saying, “I request a Most Benevolent Outcome for a parking space in front of ______________, thank you!” In my belief system, I believe it’s my Guardian Angel Handling these requests, but you can believe you’re being assisted by whatever higher power you believe in—that’s OK!  Just know, IT WORKS! Now for some neat Benevolent Outcome (MBO) stories.


Rick writes: “The lock to the laundry room door in our apartment complex has been balky lately. It seems like I spend 5 minutes trying to get the key to unlock it. I’ve used MBOs for it, and they’ve worked. The other day, I asked for one almost an hour before I went down there. To my surprise, the door was wide open with a couple of people already doing laundry, and I guess previous MBOs must have gone beyond my key working, as the landlord finally fixed the lock! It’s now in perfect working order.”

It’s those little mundane MBO’s that make life easier!


Laura writes:  “ I was overdrawn at the bank $130!, plus a $27 charge & $35 bank charge from the man that said the money was no good. O’ boy did I pray. I returned the used product but the man wanted me to pay his $35 bank charge. Well, I have 0000 money & the money from the product $125 was not returned yet.  I owe my bank $130, plus the $27 fee.  What MBO should I say ???  I have not slept the past few nights trying to word this correctly. Thank you Tom.”

Folks, this is not rocket science.  Requesting Benevolent Outcomes is the simplest way you can communicate with that loving soul we call Guardian Angels.  You don’t need me to create each one especially for you—in fact knowing your situation you’ll probably request a better MBO.

As I wrote Laura, you don’t have to have absolutely perfect wording.  Your GA knows what you mean.  Just say, “I request a Most Benevolent Outcome for my problem with my bank and may the results be even better than I can hope for or expect, thank you!”

You can also request a MBO for being led to enough money to pay all your expenses.


Daphnee writes:  “I am now in New York and reading your book bit by bit as I am spending time with my family.  I wanted only to let you know a funny and short thing that happened to me.

“After I started reading your book, one night I had a dream, I cannot remember the dream but I do remember one thing while dreaming I was requesting an MBO for something.  I was amazed that while dreaming I was still able to request one. I cannot explain it and I was wondering if you ever heard of such a situation.

“Another little story. My 4 year old was given some expensive earrings by my sister and her godmother. This morning she lost the back of the earring which is very tiny. I requested an MBO to find it and I had not even start look, the Angel directed me straight to the place where it had fallen and nobody was laughing at me anymore as I said 3 times my thank you.

“I am now going to request an MBO to request more MBOs every day.”

That was a nice MBO find!  And yes I have dreamed of requesting MBO’s, and I think that you were being reminded in the dream to do that also–perhaps in connection with finding the earring.

Don’t forget, you can go to my website and click on SIGNS. There you will find a sign that says REQUEST BENEVOLENT OUTCOMES TODAY! You can print out one or several and paste them up around your house to remind you until it becomes an absolute habit.


This was a message from Heather: “Hey Tom. Just to let you know about my most benevolent weekend–I’m a server at IHOP; well Sunday was looking pretty slow and I asked for a most benevolent tip day–well by the time I finished with my shift, I made $130.00– just what I needed (asked for). Gotta love it. I sure do. Thanks for telling us about the word Benevolent!”

I suggested to Heather and to anyone involved in serving the public that you can say each time before you begin work, “I request a Most Benevolent Outcome for tips today and may it be even better than I hope for or expect, thank you!” I wrote a whole article titled HAVE MORE SUCCESS AND LESS STESS IN RETAIL, which you can read on the website at under Articles and News. It has a lot more suggestions for anyone working in a retail store, as a commissioned salesperson, etc.


I knew that heading would get your attention.

From Lynn in Oregon: “I learned about you and Most Benevolent Outcomes from the Sedona Journal of Emergence over a year ago. I bought your book and also sent it to several friends. I have had so many wonderful MBO’s happen, sometimes I am just in awe… I always say please and thank you… One of my favorites is hot tub nights. Our tub is out on our deck, and living on the northern coast, there are a lot of rainy nights. My husband and I go out to the tub just about every Friday-Sunday night. We spend about 30 minutes. Now the chances of it raining, you can imagine, are big. We had to give it up quite a few times the first winters we lived here… Then I started using MBO’s. I ask for the sky to be dry above our Hot Tub between such and such time… I give it an hour…. I would say that we have a lot less rainy nights then we did the first couple of winters we lived here and I did not ask for MBO’s. I say it was almost 50/50 in the winter here…. Now 95% of the time it is either clear, or just a bit misty… May be cloudy and cold, but we don’t care about that! Thank you!!!

“And I use it just about daily! Lot of little things… I find it seems to work best for the small things to just make life simpler and more pleasant! And I so often find, when it doesn’t work, it turns out there is a good reason! Something even better happens. Thank you for your wonderful book! And sharing!”

If you read my book, then you’ll remember the chapter about the KRYON ALASKAN CRUISE where the whole group of us asked for clear days for our shore excursions and each day was clear. It was great!


Sue wrote to me on Facebook: Hi Tom, have a great MBO story for you today! I work at a large university and participate in their van pool program to help our environment and save a lot of money on gas and wear and tear on my own vehicle. In this program you cannot get a van pool vehicle until you have 5 additional people who work full time committed to riding with you on a daily basis. I left my other van pool in January as their working start/stop times really didn’t jibe with mine, meaning that I had to stay an extra 30 minutes each day to catch a ride home with them.

“So I decided to try and start up my own van pool with me being the primary driver and getting 5 others who live near me and have my work hours. I immediately started out by saying an MBO for having people who will be good matches for me and my alternate driver’s personalities, so that we would be able to have a good group riding together for the 2 hrs of commuting every workday. It took me a long time (7 months) to get all of my people but I finally after much frustration on my part wondering why it was taking so long got my last person and applied for the van.

”This organization requires that every newly forming van pool attends a formation meeting with the universities alternative transportation coordinator and the representative for the van pool company. During this meeting I was told that we would not get the customary brand new van but would instead get the only van available and it was a used van. I was a bit disappointed but having said MBOs all along this journey of getting my van pool group started figured that there was a reason for all of these hurdles. I was assured that the used van was safe and trustworthy and because I trusted in them (and my MBOs) I said that is fine I will take whatever you give me!

“This meeting was 2 weeks ago and last Thursday the company representative emailed me and asked if I would be available to meet her and get my van on Monday the 31st (yesterday). Of course I said yes and double checked the day and time with her and made arrangements for it yesterday. Well, we showed up for the meeting (which meant we had to take time off work and have my co-worker drive us across town several miles) and were told that she had made a mistake and told me the wrong day and that the delivery was to be today the 1st. I was very disappointed and yes a bit upset but tried my best to be polite and positive to the coordinator while wondering why this happened and what is going on?? Of course I quickly remembered that I had said MBOs for everything I could think of surrounding this whole event and thought that there was a reason or two for the misunderstanding.

“So now here’s today, the real van delivery day!! We once again show up at our meeting time wondering what our “used van” will be like. The company rep shows up and takes us outside and says “I felt so horrible about the mix-up yesterday that I decided to give you a brand new van and not the older one!” Wow!! Talk about a fantastic MBO!!!

Thanks Tom for your wonderful work and your efforts to get the word out on MBOs! Many Blessings to you Tom and your family!”


For those of you starting to buy Christmas presents, don’t forget that THE GENTLE WAY II is available for pre-order now and should be ready for delivery SOON!  It goes on the presses next week.  My publisher told me it will be around 300 pages—twice as many as the first book, but the preorder price is only $2.00 more–$16.95.  It could go higher, so put your order in TODAY by calling 800-450-0985 to order.  And the first book is a GREAT gift too, and it’s available from my publisher, or on  What a great present for you, your friends and family!

If you’re on Facebook, add me as a friend too!  And let your friends know about this blog.

Have a Most Benevolent Week everyone!


Tom T. Moore

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