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December 27, 2009

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The following stories are excerpted from my second book, THE GENTLE WAY II: The Story Continues, which was just recently delivered back to my publisher by the bindery.  My publisher, Light Technology, is having a 40% off sale up through this coming week on both my books, so please call Monday through Friday 9-5 Mountain time.  The number is 800-450-0985 or 1-928-526-1345 outside the United States.

The month of December is generally viewed as a great month of parties, dinners with friends and reunions with family. But it can be a highly stressful time when you are in charge of the dinner, or if you have to travel, or if you and your family are worlds apart in terms of lifestyle or belief.

I’m going to give you some tips and suggestions to make this time period much less stressful and a lot more pleasurable by requesting benevolent outcomes.

You can request a benevolent outcome that your visit with your family or friends is cordial and pleasant. This may seem like you are asking a lot in some instances, but ask for the impossible!

Under this category comes family members or people you know will be at the party whom you have a difficult time with because they are alcoholics or you have had a difficult relationship with them in the past. I suggest saying something like, “I ask that any and all beings come to the assistance of (name) so that they remain sober and pleasant during the time I’m there, and that they receive assistance in overcoming their problem.” This is a “living prayer” that you can say for other people. Change the wording to fit your circumstances.

If you are worried about your safety or your children’s while in the presence of someone you know to be physically, mentally or sexually abusive, then say, “I ask that my safety and that the safety of my children be guaranteed now and in the future in a way that is benevolent to us all.” This also can be said if you are currently in a relationship in which you are fearful for the same reasons.

I have mentioned the radiant effect before, but remember, when you request benevolent outcomes for yourself, it also affects others—in this case those who are at the dinner, party, or reunion with you. It makes for a much more pleasant time for everyone.


Amy in Scotia, New York writes:  “I had great fun with a benevolent outcome on the weekend before Christmas.  Because of bad weather in the east, my husband and I finally went out to find a Christmas tree on Saturday.  I asked for a MBO, including finding the perfect tree quickly and at an even better price than I could imagine.  We started out to a local grocery chain where they were selling trees, hoping to find a sale.  On the way there, we ran across a long line of cars waiting for a light at a busy intersection.

”Sensing a message here, I turned the car around and headed back the way we came, going up a country road where we had bought a tree from a farm stand in previous years.  That place was closed, but up the road I saw a sign for Christmas trees.  Walking in knee deep snow, we found the trees and went to the door to get the proprietor, but no one was home.  I shook the snow off one perfect tree and saw a price tag – $15!

”I took the money out of my wallet, but wondered how I was going to leave it at the house with no one home.  In my purse was an old paycheck envelope that I normally would have thrown away.  Perfect.  I wrote Merry Christmas on the envelope, put in the money and left it inside the front door.  When was the last time you found the perfect Christmas tree for $15?  I put it up yesterday and it’s the most beautiful Christmas tree we’ve ever had.  Happy Holidays to all.”


Val from England writes:  “Living in an apartment with very little storage we have to be very selective at what we buy.  I wanted to decorate the front pillar of our entrance with a Christmas tree. I only wanted to pay £5 because I knew I would have to throw it away after. We looked in several garden centers, but all were over £25. Back in our home town the market was on and lo and behold they had some lovely Christmas trees and guess what–the one I wanted, which was nearly 6ft tall, was just one penny under five pounds! The vender told me they were £40 in the shops and I quite believed him. How blessed I was.

”Do you know what, since you introduced me to MBO’s I do it automatically and just amazing things come about.”


Marie writes:  “Dear Tom, I have to thank you, the Angels, and God, for my MBO’s, when I felt all was lost for my Marine son’s visit for Christmas.

”Now I want to say of my MBO, This morning my son was supposed to take a flight from Washington. His flight was cancelled. Hearing there were some people waiting 3 days for a plane had me wondering if we will spend the time with him and thoughts of if he doesn’t come home, he has a good chance of being shipped out!

”My son’s Dad and I started doing searches of the Greyhound bus service, since there was a flight to a hilly area 7 hours away. We found out the road was closed due to snow conditions, so the Greyhound bus was out. My ex was about to leave to drive there and that plane also was cancelled since the airport was snowed in. There was no way for my son to get here till the 26th of Dec., “after Christmas”. This was my chance to have my plans of cooking for my family, when each year I wasn’t sure how much time I’d have with them.

”I decided to seriously ask for an MBO, and as I waited for word I made a wreath, the best I have ever made. Then comes the call, my son is boarding a plane and home in 2 hours. I cried and thanked the angels and that’s also why I am here (many, many thanks Tom).”


Lyn writes:  “What a joy and a blessing you are.  It’s New Year’s Morning and I had to write to express my appreciation…and excitement with this wonderful new and gentle approach to life!  I always believed that angels were out there…but did I ever think that I could have a relationship with them?  Not until a friend gave me the 2 chapters from your website and I started inviting them into my life, did this incredible and easy miraculous living start to unfold.

“My daughter and I were taking a girls’ weekend down to New York City and I read the chapters out loud to her on our drive there.  It would take too much space to tell you all the marvelous things that joyously fell into our laps (will mention that we got “bumped” up to the most expensive seats for the Radio City Music Hall Christmas Spectacular!!!)

”From that weekend (only 3 weeks ago), I realized that life has a splendid, happy, and simple addition…our guardian angels are there for us!!  So many amazing things have happened, but let me tell you the biggest wow! One of my wonderful jobs is that of “Pet Nanny”.  I live in people’s homes and care for their beloved pets while they are away.  It was the Saturday after Christmas and I was living in a home with a Great Dane and a greyhound, the last day before their family returned; I was also stopping in twice a day to care for two different family’s cats.  I was at the second home, feeding cats, when I had that dreaded feeling of the stomach flu bug hitting me like a bolt out of the blue!  I was feeling sicker and sicker, and just barely made it back to the dog’s house, crawled up to the bathroom…spare you the details here…and then wondered how the heck I was going to make it through the day with all the animals looking to me for their needs.

“I was going through my list of “who to call…even someone who could at least take the dogs for their afternoon walks, when of course, I realized I needed to request for the MBO!  I had just gotten your book a few days earlier, when I also remembered about the condensed time concept.  That’s what requested!  Tom!  It was profound!  As I was lying on the bed and dozing off, I felt I was being rocked back & forth, then slowly awoke to feel the nausea go up and out of me.  I sat up and felt fine!  I thought a few minutes had gone was two hours later.  But I was able to walk the dogs, finish cleaning the family’s house, visit the cats again, pack up and head for home.  I felt like you feel the day after you’ve had the flu…so, it seems I had the 24-hour bug in 2 hours!

”I have been telling absolutely everyone about The Gentle Way.  At the hair salon yesterday…created quite an audience!!  I would love to do a little class.  I often teach feng shui at a local recreation center and I think offering a small class there based on your book would be such a neat way to share with lots of people.  What are your thoughts on having someone like me facilitate a class?   Thank you so much for “hooking me up” with my guardian angels!  Life will never be the same!”

For Lyn and anyone else out there that would like to facilitate a class on The Gentle Way, let me know and I can point you in the direction of some of the usual questions people ask about the book, plus I can hook you up with my publisher so that everyone in the class can have a book as part of the class.

Lyn recently update me about the results of the class.  Lyn writes:  “Requesting MBOs helped so much with moving last week.  Things went really well, even having the intermittent rain showers cease when we were loading and unloading.  Too many to mention!!

”I invited anyone from our recent Guardian Angel class to come to share their experiences.  Many wanted to, but it was such a busy weekend with graduations, etc.  However, two ladies came…the two who were the most skeptical!

”They went on and on about how many lovely things happened that week.  The one who was most critical of the idea, spoke of a lunch she had with a friend who is very negative and unhappy and she always dreaded meeting her.  She requested an MBO for it to be pleasant and joyful for both of them, and she said it was the best time they’d ever had…and her friend bought her lunch!”


Jean writes:   “I had a grocery store MBO, Christmas Eve afternoon.  I knew the stores would be crowded with last minute shoppers, but really needed a few items, especially since that is my usual shopping day.   Knowing that the lines could be long, I still requested an MBO for a short line.  With only 8 items in my cart, I was still about 15 people back from the express check out.  While chatting with the woman ahead of me, I noticed a woman waving near the head of the line, and decided to see why.  Come to find out, she was trying to signal to her son that they’d opened a second express line, but she couldn’t catch his eye.

“So I told her that I hoped she didn’t mind, but I was going to go through.  One woman was having her groceries bagged, the next man in line had three items, and I was next!  Instead of a 20 minute or more wait, I was out of the store within five minutes, laughing all the way, as I still had another errand to run and now knew I’d get there before their earlier closing time!  Of course I didn’t have far to walk to my car!”


Debbie writes:  “I have to tell you my MBO tale of yesterday. Well, I gave my mom a nightgown….too big, so went back to store myself for exchange. As I pulled up to parking I asked for MBOs for the whole experience of returning it.   I found a perfect parking spot even in the season rush.  Also I had a most favorable outcome in the lingerie dept(2 fold request!). Anyway, a good spot on end so I didn’t get my car pinged.  And in the store…. I found a better nightgown in the proper size.

“To top that, in line a woman ahead of me turns and asks if I could use a coupon for a purchase…it was for 10 bucks off. As I walked to leave I saw a robe that had “Maxine” written all over it(not literally!)…. Used another lesser amount coupon for the robe purchase and then I had an extra I offered to the guy behind me. Upon delivery, all fit perfectly and she excitedly modeled them for me.  Mission accomplished!”

As I have mentioned many times, requesting Benevolent Outcomes makes even the normal mundane tasks easier and less stressful. That last story was just sent to me a couple of days ago, so if you’ve started requesting MBO’s and have an inspiring story to tell, email me at the below email address.  You can also explore my website at, where you can read articles I’ve written for magazines, my weekly newsletter, listen to a Podcast, print out signs to help you to remember to request MBO’s and much more!

Have a Most Benevolent Week, and a Most Benevolent 2010!

Tom T. Moore


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December 18, 2009

Benevolent Outcomes Blog #7


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For those of you that are new readers of this Blog, about 13 years or so ago I started requesting Benevolent Outcomes for first the small mundane things like a parking space in front of a busy restaurant or busy shopping center, and then expanded it as I experienced successes to include all my business life as an international film and TV distributor and my personal life.  Requesting Most Benevolent Outcomes (MBO’s as I call them) has been spreading around the world, and I receive success stories from Europe, Australia, and Asia, to name a few.  Now here are some great emails I’ve received in the past month!


Diane writes:  “I wrote to you in the fall about MBO’s regarding breast cancer. I had had a follow-up mammogram at a specialized Breast Care Center and further results from an MRI, which indicated that a biopsy was needed. I kept requesting an MBO and with one thing and another, I couldn’t get an appointment to see the MD until March. I wanted to discuss the MRI results before deciding upon the biopsy.

”When I arrived, the nurse asked me to change into a gown. I said I wasn’t there for a procedure, but to talk to the MD. She went to check, and when she returned she offered me three options: 1) it was time for a 6 month follow-up mammogram. I could do that and then see the MD; 2) I could return in 3 months and take a second MRI; 3) I could talk to the MD. I chose option one. The breast care specialist shared with me the radiologist’s report that I had no changes from the last mammogram. I had no cancer. She sent a report to my internist saying that they used a computer to verify the mammogram results and that I had no cancer. It was not necessary to have a biopsy. So, I was very, very grateful. Thank you very much for the MBO you gave to me.”


Diana in Hong Kong writes in two emails: “Just want to update you that the time you wrote me the email, I immediately get that “whisper in my ear.”   It is beyond words how that whisper comes to my ear.

“My sister wants to ask, whether it is possible to do too many MBO requests? (I don’t think so).  I think you and your GA also said it in the book, yes?  Thank you for the blessing of your teaching.

“I hope you could one day find time to make a second book to The Gentle Way.

Because I am sure many MBOs situations didn’t make it to book 1, even though it makes it to your newsletter and Sedona Journal column.  Even though I enjoyed reading your newsletter and column, I like the idea of having a dictionary of “situations” to refer to.

“I just came back from a trip to Shenzhen with our 2 young kids, and the MBOs helped a lot during our vacation.  On our way back, I didn’t forget to request MBOs for passing the China customs quickly, safely and the car passed very quickly without a hitch.  We got a friendly officer, which liked children. And we seem to get taxis everywhere safely and get the best-looking taxis (where in China the taxis tend to be pretty old).”

You can’t request too many MBO’s.  That’s just a “3rd dimensional” idea.  These Guardian Angels are so powerful that as I’ve said before my GA could handle 10 million requests for a parking space at the same time and never break a sweat (again using 3d terminology).  Remember that they are taking care of each of us in all of our lives on earth ALL AT THE SAME TIME (600 to 800 on average) and in ALL 12 TIME LINES for each life, and for all the soul groups (6 to 12 on average per soul) for 6,000 to 19,000 souls on average.  Do the math and that comes out to one billion or so decisions and counseling each minute!  It’s just beyond our third dimensional understanding.

I asked my Guardian Angel Theo in meditation– Are my figures correct about the 1 billion or more decisions you must make for all the soul fragments in all their lives being lived at the same time?

Yes, Tom.  More or less.  Perhaps I don’t normally think of it in those 3d terms, but on your level of understanding, yes, I have millions of decisions and acts of assistance I provide the soul fragments in any given minute of all their lives being lived at the same time.  You just had no concept until recently exactly what I meant by multi-tasking, as it was beyond your concept at that time.  You will have even more of an understanding in the future to look forward to.   So yes, those figures could be accurate, although naturally there are fluctuations.


Judy in Sydney writes: After reading an article by you in an Australian magazine, I rushed to order The Gentle Way. I eagerly awaited its arrival in the post (I live in Sydney, Australia). I have now just finished it and want to tell you how much it has benefited my life. Although I have always worked with angels, the MBO method is much more concise and effective.  I have been doing MBO’s for two weeks now – it has worked particularly well with little things e.g. conversations, events, driving, etc. I am waiting for the most important thing in my life right now, which is to get the best job for me that will cover my expenses. My current job has been cut back to two days per week and I am not able to pay my mortgage and expenses. My MBO is “I request a most benevolent outcome for the perfect job for me that will use my talents and abilities and provide more than enough income to cover my expenses”. Do you have any better suggestions?

”Also, can you tell me how often I can say the same MBO? I’ve been saying it several times a day -whenever start worrying about my situation. I figured it was better to say an MBO than worry.  However, I wanted to ask you if it is a good idea to say the same MBO several times a day.”

For Judy and all of my new subscribers, you can say, “I request a Most Benevolent Outcome for the PERFECT job for me, thank you!” You only have to say that once, as it frees your Guardian Angel to start working to make that happen.  It might be weeks or months, and you might land an interim job, as someone else might have that job and will have to leave first (benevolently).  You need to change up the MBO’s each day.  Request one when you look online for jobs, or request one for finding something in the paper, or request one each time you go for an interview, and request one each time you go out to network with friends.

And don’t forget to go to my website and click on SIGNS and print out the EXPECT GREAT THINGS TODAY mantra.  Theo says you will see some amazing things begin to happen when you say that each day.


Lyn writes: “I loved hearing about your trip to the UK!  It’s one of my most favorite places.  So many great MBOs here…couldn’t wait to tell you that our first class based on your book is Saturday, May 2nd.  Everything just dropped into place!

“I also have such fun news about my living situation-all the outcome of requesting MBOs.  I’ve been a professional dog nanny and house sitter for the past 2 years, and sharing the rent at my daughter’s apartment, though spending very little time there.

“She is off to do some traveling and I thought…..hmmmm, wouldn’t it be nice to not have rent and utilities.  So, of course, out went the request for an MBO, and I came up with a lovely apartment (for free) in exchange for some dog sitting (which I love).

“Then I was thinking about the country on weekends, and the brother of a friend (who happens to have a stone house on 80 acres) wants someone to live in the house once in a while, so it looks cared for (he only uses it 3-4 times a year, otherwise it’s empty).  Oh, yeah…for free!!  Cool, huh?  So, I now have free housing for my times in between dog nanny jobs.  No rent, no utilities!!

“I think maybe the most fun about requesting MBOs is not worrying about how something is going to come about…it just does.  Thanks to our guardian angels!  Thank you again, Tom, for writing the book!  Expecting great things.”


Lynn from Oregon writes: “My husband and I are going to Mexico in May to celebrate our 30th….  We don’t do much traveling so this is big for us….   We are going to Riviera Maya outside of Cancun.  Asked for MBO when planning this trip and sure got incredible prices and trust it will be the perfect place for us to be staying!

“We will be going on a day trip to Chichen Itza, a place we both wanted to experience.  So I am wondering if any of your guides know anything about this and if there is a chance of having a spiritual experience there?  Thank you Tom…..  We will of course ask for MBO’s the whole trip!”

Theo, why do people feel strange, when climbing the Chichen Itza pyramid in Mexico?

Yes, as you may have guessed, the stones have many energies imprinted on them from the past—both good and bad Tom.  The pyramid itself has energies from its geographic location and its situation in connection to the astrological alignments.  So between them all you have a lot of energy that sensitive people can feel quite easily and others to a certain extent.

And do request a MBO for an experience there at the pyramid.


Last month Daphnee in Vienna, Austria was asking how to request an MBO for amicably dissolving a marriage.  Daphnee writes: “Thank you so much for your MBO.  It worked  marvelously, at least the first step. In mid-February as he moved out, he informed me that he would not get a divorce. After I said the MBO and talked to God, this Saturday he asked me for a divorce.

“I will continue saying the MBO so that there is no quarrel between us and that it goes through smoothly in divine timing and divine ways. I will keep you informed.  Bless you.”


Charlene writes: “When I write out my MBO’s I put them on flashcards and post where I can see and read easily all day long.  The first time I write it out I do say it out loud, but then simply read the words after that.  I don’t change the words, I simply wait.  Once the MBO has become a reality I take the card down.

“You say the request only has to be made once AND changed out every day.  Sorry but that confuses me.  Am I going about this all wrong?  I’ve been granted everything I’ve asked for very quickly using the flashcards.  Longest wait was three months so I find it hard to believe I’m doing this “wrong”.  HELP!!!

“The other “strange” thing thats going on is even though I’ve told my partner and my sister about MBOs and they say they’ve “tried” with no results, when I create an MBO for them for their requests things start happening for them very quickly.  Why is that?”

I think it’s fine to post the cards, as it is a mental reminder that you requested the MBO.  I think it helps create the event–junior creator in training.  You’re EXPECTING it to happen!

I find that when people say they have requested MBO’s and “they don’t work” is either because they requested something so far off it doesn’t seem to have been successful, or they really are rejecting it but want to tell you they tried.  They might be lazy–after all, this takes a little concentration to make it a habit–or they can’t believe, because of previous religious training, that people can actually make these requests and they’re answered.  Many people have been taught that they’re “not worthy,” and only some religious leader can make requests for them.

When you request a MBO in front of them and it happens, then it will remind them that this actually works–especially if it is something simple like a parking spot or any of the mundane things we do everyday.  Remember, as I wrote about in the book, there is a RADIANT EFFECT so when you request a MBO for yourself, it can include them too.  If it’s just for them, you’re supposed to say, “I ask…..” in the form of a Benevolent Prayer, as a whole different set of angels handle those requests INSTANTLY.

Have a Most Benevolent Week and Merry Christmas for all of you who celebrate!


Tom T. Moore

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December 12, 2009





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Welcome to this edition of my Blog for those who are just learning about requesting Most Benevolent Outcomes (MBO’s) in their lives to lower stress and the “fear factor” and lead a more gentle life.  You can learn much more about requesting MBO’s on my website There you can read a couple of sample chapters of my first book, articles I’ve written for magaines, and much more!  My new book, The Gentle Way II:  The Story Continues is now available for order directly from my publisher at 40% off the list price, along with my first book, until January.  Telephone 800-450-0985 to order.

One more note:  You will see some questions below I ask my own Guardian Angel Theo in meditation.  Anyone that already meditates can do the same thing.  It’s just another way to benefit from meditation, which is recommended by doctors and health care specialists.


A number of people have written to me in the past couple of months asking about requesting the same Benevolent Outcome multiple times.  My standard answer has been, as I was told, that you only have to request it one time.  But still the emails kept coming, so I knew it was time to get the answer directly from my own Guardian Angel Theo.

Theo, here’s a question I’ve been asked several times recently.  Should people only request a Benevolent Outcome once, or can they request the same numerous times?

A good question Tom for today.  Yes, if they feel a need to, they can request a Benevolent Outcome more than once, although it is not needed.  One request works just as well as numerous requests.  We, meaning what you call Guardian Angels, understand that since you are veiled, you question everything—even the validity of requesting MBO’s–even when you have been having great success in requesting them.  The veil is very thick but it is thinning, and as you have told your readers Tom, requesting MBO’s thins the veil and raisers their vibrational level.  So if they feel more comfortable in requesting a Benevolent Outcome more than once, then it is OK, and it will not dilute the request.

So request the same MBO as many times as you wish if it makes you feel more comfortable.  Your Guardian Angel will not penalize you if you do.


Starr writes:  “I enjoy your newsletter but I have an issue with your Benevolent Prayer. It says “I ask that any and all beings…” Doesn’t that leave things open to non-benevolent beings to step in?  Shouldn’t it be changed to something like “all beings from the light…”?

”This may be my issue, but would you go out to the street and ask any and all people you meet into your home, or mind?  I am surprised that someone hasn’t put this out there before. Blessings.”

I do thank Starr for bringing this up.  I find that when I receive a question like this then there are many other people that have this same question, but haven’t asked.  I’m quite sure this question will be in one of the first two chapters of my upcoming book.

Theo, Starr has a problem with “any and all beings” as she is concerned that this will attract non-benevolent beings.  Your comments.

Yes, it might seem that way on the surface to Starr, Tom, but when angelic beings, as you call them, are called upon to provide assistance, they certainly would not “dial up” shall we say, a non-benevolent being to assist the person that said the Benevolent Prayer, or for whom they said the prayer for.

These are, as we have discussed before, whole souls Tom, and even though they have not achieved a golden light-being level, they still are whole souls and capable of millions of decisions per minute in your time.  Please trust these souls to handle any request in a most benevolent way, as they have only the best intentions for the person or beings in the request.  It is all accomplished from within the light, so there is no danger of attracting non-benevolent beings.


Judy in Sydney Australia writes:  Hi Tom.  I just have to tell you about my recent Angel miracle. On Tuesday night, I was going to a night class in another part of Sydney. I said my MBO’s for safe travel before I left. When I got there, I parked my car and walked across the street with the green light. Suddenly, an elderly lady in a 4WD flew around the corner at full speed and narrowly missed me – I mean by an eyelash! She said she was looking at the lights and not at pedestrians on the crosswalk. I screamed and fell back onto the road, but just scraped my hand and had a few bruises.

“Several people ran to give me their cards as witnesses but I really was alright, just shaken up. Another 1/4 of a second and I would have been badly hit.

”After my class, I stopped off at the supermarket and playing over the loudspeaker was the song, “Send me an Angel”. How’s that for confirmation!  I can’t thank you enough for your instructions with MBO’s – it saved my life!”


Tresta writes:  “I would like to thank you for writing the book “The Gentle Way”.  I have been constantly disciplining myself to request my MBO’s (Most Benevolent Outcomes).   I recently had an incident with my car.  On this particular morning I dropped my children off to school.  After that I went to the gas station and headed home.   Mind you.  I live on an Island (St. Thomas, Virgin Island).  If you ever been here, you would know that it is very mountainous.

“Back to the story.  I was driving up the side of the “hill” and I veered to the right.  I noticed I was veering a little too far to the right.  I steered right back to my lane and stopped the car.  I got out, looked under the car and I didn’t see anything loose.  I quickly got on the phone to my husband and informed him on what was going on.  I told him “stay on the phone with me, I’m going to put the car in second gear, turn the hazard lights on and drive “slowly home”.  Before I took off, I immediately said my MBO.   “I request a Most Benevolent Outcome for this car to arrive safely at home”.  What do you know I made it! Safely!   My husband called the mechanic, he came out, looked at the car and called me over.

”We both looked under the car.  To my surprise he showed me the steering rod, completely off the wheel!  He asked how did I make it home.  I immediately said, “My Guardian Angels.”   Once again, Thank you, thank you Tom.”


Angela writes: Please explain the Benevolent Living Prayer?  I wondered about prayer for a Benevolent outcome for someone else. (Buying the book may have shed some light on this subject.  It’s on my list of things to do.)

”I need a Benevolent prayer for my son and granddaughter.  My son is going through the courts requesting full custody of his daughter.  It has been very emotional for us and I am having a hard time stopping the tears.  (My granddaughter’s mother…they did not marry…..just moved her 5 states away.)  Please assist in a loving way to phrase the prayer?”

Yes, there’s a whole chapter in the book about Benevolent Living Prayers.  It’s what you say for other people, where MBO requests or strictly for specific things for you.  A whole different set of what we call angels takes care of those requests.

Perhaps you could say, “I ask that any and all beings assist my granddaughter in having the most benevolent living arrangement and custody for her, thank you!”

Remember that all these requests have to be benevolent for everyone in the request, and saying that Benevolent Prayer puts it squarely on what’s best for the child–whether that’s full custody, partial custody, or whatever.  Remember that there are soul contracts at work here, so you can only request what’s best for the child and her soul contract.

When the court case comes up you can say, ” I ask that any and all beings assist the judge in making the best decision for the custody of my granddaughter, thank you!”


Shannon writes:  “Thank you so much for your newsletters.  I use MBO’s through out the day, and it has made my life much easier.  I am a Reiki Master and am teaching Reiki and trying to spread the word about this wonderful healing energy.  It has made quite an impact on my life, and others that I have seen.  I was just sent an article from the Reiki magazine with the following:

“Recently a committee of Catholic bishops wrote a statement saying that Reiki is based on superstition and Catholic’s shouldn’t use it. More specifically, they said it shouldn’t be used in Catholic hospitals, health care centers, or by Catholic chaplains.

“Is Reiki a healing energy that helping our advancement or just another “thing” that we have made up?  Being from a Catholic background, I do not have any trust in Catholic Church, but it saddens me that they are doing this.”

Theo, is Reiki a valid healing modality?  Why would the Catholic Church try to ban it?

Yes, of course it is a valid form of healing Tom.  The Catholic Church wants to ban it for several reasons.  First out of ignorance.  They don’t understand how it works.  Second, because they don’t understand it they are fearful that it could be some form of Satanism, which you and others know it is not.  So as it always happens, ignorance breeds fear and their actions spring from that fear.  It will take some time for them to accept Reiki as a form of healing, and yes, they like to think they’re the only form of healing – only through the Priests, but there are many forms of healing and more will be discovered in the coming years.  There will be less need for their services shall we say by their congregations.


This actress asked me to not use her real name so Joy writes:  I have been requesting an MBO around my acting career – have used the phrasing that you suggested.  Then I asked for a “sign” that I was focusing on the right direction.  Just got a letter from Screen Actors Guild that they would like me to be on the nominating committee for 3 areas for Emmy nominations – a total of 9 nominations!!  It is a “random” draw.  However, I got the letter the day after I asked for the sign!  Pretty amazing!  And one of the areas?  Best actress in a sitcom!!!!!!  Which is exactly what I would like to do!!!!!

“Oh, and one more thing!!  An actor that I met in the fall agreed yesterday to forward my headshot and resume to one of his agents to see if I could free-lance with this agent for commercial work!!  I request a Most Benevolent Outcome about this agent and may it be better and greater than I hope for!!  YAY!

“I request a Most Benevolent Outcome about being on the SAG TV nominating committee and may it be better and greater than I hope for!”


Annette writesI’ve been reading your book and first of all I want to thank you for writing it and secondly, for writing it in a way that is simple to use and understand. I’ve had some interesting results; the best was finding an item that a friend of my husband (who is stay with us temporarily) broke. The pan has not been made in over 20 years and it was something I uses for specific cooking. When I went to the manufactures website to see if I could order a replacement, it was over $60.00. I requested a MBO to find a reasonable replacement and I found a like new one on EBay and bid $20.00 – I won it at $14.50 and with shipping it came to $28.97.

“Then I found the other item, a Tupperware colander, (that he accidentally melted) on EBay. It is made with only the holes in the bottom and fits my containers perfectly – it hasn’t been made in close to 30 years. I was able to get it with shipping for $18.50. I didn’t even ask for that MBO – but since I was trying to replace items I often used as a set my Guardian Angel put me in touch with how to replace them BOTH! They are like they have never been used!!  And…the person who damaged them gave me the money PLUS extra towards utilities, etc.!

“Since I am new to the requesting of MBO’s I was wondering “how” to go about asking for something to continue to function and not break down, at least until I am financially in a place to repair or replace said item.  Example: our hot water heater was installed 9 years ago. The warranty expired 3 years ago and yesterday we noticed the spicket was dripping. Would I request the MBO for our hot water heater to continue to work until we were more financially stable, or would I request that all our appliances and equipment continue to function while we are going through this, or does it matter how I word the MBO? I want to make certain that my intent is presented properly.

“I have read through 1/3 of the book and have to take a break periodically to digest the information and understand it. It is all new to me – talking to my Angel for these things, but makes more sense each day. I have looked through the book and not seen a request example that seems to relate to the request for something to work instead of finding a repair, but I may have overlooked it.”

You’re right.  That’s one of the things that’s not in the first book but will be touched upon in the second book, as I recall from other stories I’ve received.

You do have a couple of MBO’s you can request, so you can do both—“I request a Most Benevolent Outcome that the water heater continues to work properly until I can afford to replace it, thank you,” or ask for a MBO for a replacement that you can afford — and see what your GA comes up with.  You can add the tag line “and may it be even better than I can hope for or expect, thank you!”

What about checking Craig’s list in your area?  Sometimes people (as we did when we bought this house) want a specific type of water heater and replace one that still has a lot of life left in it–a good interim solution.    Sometimes a plumber, who might need some side work, would either offer one, or would keep an eye out for one for you for the cost of say $100 plus labor.  The plumbing companies would not want to do this, as there’s probably not enough profit in there for them.

And one more thing, I would suggest keeping your friend out of the kitchen—he sounds like a walking accident—probably because he is concerned about his situation.


Steve writes:  “Thank you for your recent reply to my question on the Santa Barbara wildfires. This is an update and follow up to my previous question.

”After I wrote to you, the situation looked very, very serious for Santa Barbara and also for Montecito to the south and Goleta to the north as the fires continued to spread. The next evening the firefighters were bracing for the worst as the Sundowner winds were predicted to be gusting again. These winds come up in the evening and blow down the foothills fanning the flames out of control and towards the residential areas. I followed an impulse to request an MBO that the Sundowner winds be calmed. The previous day, when “all hell broke loose,” the temperature in Santa Barbara was a record 101 degrees in the city and much higher in the foothills.

“The next day a marine layer brought cool, damp air in from the ocean. The temperature dropped 30 degrees and the Sundowner winds never materialized as predicted by the National Weather Service. Every day I kept requesting that the Sundowner winds be calmed. The marine layer remained for three days with no Sundowners. For the next 3 days the National Weather Service predicted a return of the Sundowners, but they never materialized, allowing the firefighters to achieve 80 percent containment and begin scaling down the operation.

“As I write now, 14 days after the fire first broke out, there is 100 percent containment of the fire and firefighters are mopping up as the fire burns itself out. The city has returned to normal. What a miraculous turnaround to a potentially disastrous situation. I am wondering whether my MBOs and my Guardian Angel could have produced such a profound effect. Naturally I would like to think that is possible, but find it difficult to believe.

”Would you ask Theo or Gaia if my MBOs and my Guardian Angel played a major role in this miraculous turnaround or was it just one of many other factors or was it just coincidence?”

Theo, did Steve’s request for a Most Benevolent Outcome regarding the Santa Barbara fires have any effect, or was it just one of many factors or a coincidence?

Yes Tom, his request of the Benevolent Outcomes did have some effect, along with the prayers of countless people in that area.  Prayers are answered as you teach.  They don’t have to be said a particular way, although what you have shown people how to say them works perhaps the best, because it is so easy to remember, as compared to trying to make up a completely new prayer each time for something specific for you, or especially one for other people and beings such as animals.  So to answer Steve’s question, yes, his voice was heard along with others and Gaia changed the weather for them, as you are junior creators in training and you must be able to see your successes, yes?

Yes, of course I agree.  We would give up if we saw nothing happening.  That’s what’s great about requesting MBO’s in your life.  For the mundane requests like a parking spot you receive immediate feedback that this simple spiritual tool works, and it builds trust in requesting MBO’s for the more important things in your life.

Have a Most Benevolent Week everyone!


Tom T. Moore

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Have you experimented with requesting Benevolent Outcomes in your life yet?  This is the most powerful tool I’ve ever found to make your life less stressful, less fearful, and more enjoyable!  You still will have those challenges in life your soul wishes to experience—they’ll just be more benevolent—not so harsh.  Check out my website where you can read a couple of sample chapters of my book, aritcles I’ve written for magazines, and much more!  Here are some more stories from people that are requesting Most Benevolent Outcomes (MBO’s) in their daily lives.


Kathy writes:  I Would just like to say how much my life has changed for the better since I became aware of requesting MBO’s. I request them always for friends, family, and even for myself (healers are always the last to think of themselves!). At any rate, I just know that it works! Not everything happens as we would expect, but it is always the most benevolent outcome. Always!

Thank you, thank you, thank you!


Helena in the UK writes: When I first started doing my MBO’S.  I was trying too hard, but I got fed up with wanting results.  One day I was walking through our local park, I was muttering away to myself, I said I request a MBO for a ‘Robin’ to show me it’s big fat breast as proof to me that my MBO’S are working for me. (And I thought, ha ha, this will not work for me, as I was trying too hard and being quite negative)  Well nothing happened!

On my way back through the park I requested the MBO again for the Robin to appear, I carried on walking, and you will never guess what happened? Out of the bushes shot this Robin, it puffed itself up like a fluffy ball; it tipped its head to the right as if it was looking at me. (I just stood still as I had full shopping bags in each hand ) When this Robin appeared I just got the shock of my life, as it shot out the bushes just like that, I just stood there laughing my head of and I just could not stop laughing.  There were people playing football all around.  It just happened so quickly and it shot back in the bushes, I waited to see if it would come back out but it didn’t. This Robin only appeared for about 30/40seconds,but it did seem longer.  It was just so funny Tom. I remember every detail like it happened yesterday.

Well Tom I most certainly got my proof that my MBO’S are working for me.  And I most certainly said, “Thank You, Thank you, Thank you!”


Daphnee writes: I happen to read the part of your newsletter regarding the Guardian Angels embodying into 3D to save someone’s life.  Back a few years ago while living in Cyprus, I was driving my car very fast on the Highway on the fast lane (right side, as they have the same rules as in the UK) and overtook 2 cars in the middle, or left lane (the slower one), there was another 3rd car ahead on the left lane and I was about to overtake this car and was slightly ahead of it already, when  SUDDENLY, invisible hands grabbed the wheel and I found myself slowing down and going to the left side behind the car I actually had already overtaken.

In the SAME MOMENT, a car came driving opposite directly, towards me on the lane I was before. I don’t know how you call this in English but in German we call that ” ghost riders”. I don’t know what had happened, but I knew it was not me.  I as Daphnee would never have slowed down and moved over to the slow lane, especially as I had already passed the other car. I thought, “Oh was that my guardian angel????”

This is the event in my life where I started to believe in Angels and dared talking to mine. Years I was not sure did I have one only or many. My feeling is that its a plural form of angel but I am not sure. Maybe you can shed some light on that?

Theo tells me there is only one Golden Light Being that we call our Guardian Angel which oversees us every minute of the day and night.  We do have one or two main guides and several that come and go depending upon what we’re doing at that time in life.


Pam writes on Facebook: “Hi Tom, I just wanted to share a Great MBO I had today and thank you for telling me all about MBO’s. I’m having some dental work done soon and the cost was a lot, I did a MBO to help me with the money and for it to be a lot lower than the quote, then the dentist office called and gave me a $1000.00 discount for paying up front in full. Now how great is that!! Thank you so much.


AnneMarie writes on Facebook:  Tom, have to tell you about my friend’s MBO.  She is re-doing her bathroom and wanted Real Marble tiles.  Well they normally go anywhere form $10 -15.00 for a 12×12 square.

So on Sunday, after doing an MBO in church, she drove to Lowe’s.  As she was walking to the tile aisle, on the end of the aisle were boxes of tiles with a sign, “Marble” … Read More– tile $1.42 each tile.  She was speechless–must be a mistake–then the salesman showed up and told her they were overstocked in those tiles…not selling and his boss said mark ‘em down.  At that price she told him she could do both bathrooms and had measurements requiring 20 boxes. He told her that if she bought them right then he would Discount the price down to $1.00 per square….. NOW THAT IS A MBO ….most benevolent outcomes for the best possible deal….. YEAH!

That was a good MBO!  I’m sure her Guardian Angel was “pleased as punch.”


Frances writes: I have struggled with being overweight all of my life and I ask for MBO’s to help me with this.  Yet I feel that nothing much has happened or nothing much that I can perceive.  Could you help with a suggested MBO for healthy weight loss and good eating habits?  Thanks.  I love The Gentle Way Newsletter and I am grateful for your response.

For Frances and anyone with this challenge I’ll give you some MBO’s to request and then some practical suggestions.

I request a Most Benevolent Outcome for attaining the best weight for my health and happiness, thank you!

I request a Most Benevolent Outcome for choosing the healthiest foods both at home and in restaurants, thank you!

I request a Most Benevolent Outcome for being led to healthy, enjoyable exercises for me, thank you!

Now, having had a weight problem in the past, and still have to continually watch myself (thanks to my wife), we both found that Weight Watchers worked the best of any program we ever tried.  I lost 25 pounds.

The best thing that came out of the program was Portion Control. Most restaurants serve twice what you should consume.  We therefore either split the entree’ or divide it into two halves and take the other half and have it the next day or two days.  During our Sedona trip for a week in June we did just that almost every dinner (and lunches too) and did not have our first desert until Tuesday evening (we arrived Friday morning) when we split a mousse.

The Weight Watcher “Smart Ones” and Lean Cuisine both list the Weight Watcher points, although we don’t count anymore.  It’s best to not eat out of the container, but spread it out on a plate.  They normally take up the whole plate, so visually you feel like you’re eating a full meal.

And for exercise, start walking, if you are not already.  Either early in the morning or evening get out and walk for at least 20 minutes.  It really does boost your metabolism.

I hope I’ve been of some assistance!


Karen writes:  In February, I had been on disability for awhile, and the need to see my only grandchild, a grandson, became almost unbearable. His home is about 2300 miles away.  I have a old dog, who is a wonderful traveling companion and she was welcome at my daughter’s home so I loaded up my Saturn Vue and off we went.  When we got headed to connect with highway 40 I made my request of a MBO for our trip.

I am in my 68th year and love to travel, especially drive, so the trip was exciting for me.  I was confronted with ice and snow, faired that well, got snow stranded in Kingman, Arizona and I took a u turn and went through Havasu City, spied the London Bridge and saw some of the most breathtaking sites along the Colorado River!

I had been having a fuel tank thing with my car and I gassed up at intervals of 150-200 miles to be sure I wouldn’t run out of gas in support of the MBOs for my car running well.  As we went along the trip, I was led to gas stations I never would have guessed of their existence.  It took me a whole day to drive across Texas, from El Paso to Shreveport and MBO’s kept me alert and enjoying the drive.   I saw areas I never dreamed I would and enjoyed ever inch of them.

While visiting my grandson, my Vue failed and I traded it in on a new car after requesting a MBO.  I had possession of the new car with all the papers signed and such and drove to Virginia and back for a one day excursion.  The deal on the new car fell through the next day so I was back with the Vue.  I got repair help to get it well enough to drive back home thanks to my MBO and my Son in law.

I am grateful for the lesson of using MBOs.  I took this nearly 6000 mile round trip and saw new states to add to my goal of the lower 48, at least, and didn’t suffer.  My Vue was having ailments and couldn’t face going to Virginia, so because of my MBO I was given a new car to drive there!  And my Vue made the trip back to my home just fine!

Please let your friends know about this blog, and explore my website where you can print out signs such as REQUEST BENEVOLENT OUTCOMES TODAY! You can find my website at, where you can also email me.  You can buy both my books directly from my publisher this month at 40% off!  Telephone 800-450-0985 .

Have a Most Benevolent Week!

Tom T. Moore

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